love doesnât end in a breakup. it ends in the small, ordinary moments where you choose not to call. where you stop telling them your good news. where you hear a song and donât send it. love ends quietly, long before goodbye.
Hans Zimmerâs âMountainsâ in Interstellar (2014) is genius because the score becomes the plot. Each tick isnât rhythm, itâs years draining away on that ocean world.
Donât FaceTime me, donât call me, donât text me, donât email me, donât mail me, donât carrier pigeon me, donât knock on my door
Iâm not answering
men donât go online to talk about how stressed they are.
They donât make posts about what they refuse to do for their wives or in their marriages.
They donât make videos listing everything they do for their families.
They just go to work. They handle their responsibilities quietly. They make sure their families have food, shelter, clothes, and safety. They deal with life face to face, not through social media or movement.
For men, peace doesnât come from likes or comments. It comes from knowing they did what they were supposed to do. And even when theyâre tired or struggling inside, they keep pushing forwardâŠoften hoping, silently, to be appreciated.
Ngl one of the downsides of being an emotionally intelligent person is that you'll be able and willing to see and understand things from everyone else's POV... but people are rarely capable or willing to give that same grace of understanding towards you.
An eternal frustration.