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[Thandeka Tshabalala @ms_ttshabalala]

And now, remarkably, the conversation has shifted from the man’s documented conduct to interrogating the woman who dares to question it.

I only became aware of the incident after leaving the house. But even if I had known earlier, since when does the timing of a woman’s objection determine the seriousness of a man’s conduct?

How fascinating, and frankly frightening, that in a discussion about gender-based violence, some people’s first instinct is not to examine the behaviour in question, but to scrutinise the woman raising it.

The man becomes the subject of forgiveness. The woman becomes the subject of interrogation.

And we wonder why confronting GBV remains such an enormous challenge.

Accountability does not acquire an expiry date simply because the conversation makes people uncomfortable.

This warrants a video

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@Sisvee11 @mmeliofficial 🤣���🤣🤣🤣

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@Tee_stm Bathong big brother 😭😭😭

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@ms_ttshabalala Nawe , you are using the situation for your own gain where was this vim in the house when you called him your brother.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

She’s unbelievable using Liema’s trauma for on benefits just bcz bravo called her a bully.
Liema made peace and move on.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

We call them out then he was disqualified, bravo to time to reflect on the situation, he went to Liema’s mom and liema to apologise. Before he was invited back for redemption, the production asked liema if she was comfortable being in the same space with him, she said yes!!!!

[Thandeka Tshabalala @ms_ttshabalala]

@Yolie909 So you agree it was wrong? Yet you’re defending him? Interesting…

[YolieT @Yolie909]

You are using Liema’s trauma for thandekae’s gain while you and your teammates bodyshaming her. Bravo took accountability and went to Liema’s mom to apologise.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

You are using Liema’s trauma for thandekae’s gain while you and your teammates bodyshaming her. Bravo took accountability and went to Liema’s mom to apologise.

[Sanquiz2gh__ @sanquiz2gh__]

Court rise! Your honor Thandeka Tshabalala this is the evidence ..🤏

[Asa. @_Asanele]

We watched you being a GBV apologist blaming the victim(uDidi)
We watched you making transphobic remarks yet you still have public support , cut the act.!

[YolieT @Yolie909]

I find this advocacy fake!!!
When are you going to address this speaking ill about women’s menstruation to a man.

[Thandeka Tshabalala @ms_ttshabalala]

I find it profoundly disturbing that I have spent much of today witnessing people defend or minimise conduct of this nature. The extent to which some are willing to rationalise it raises questions far more troubling than the incident itself.

So I ask, without fear of contradiction: How seriously are we, as a society, committed to fighting gender-based violence when our standards of accountability appear so inconsistently applied?

South Africa speaks passionately about fighting gender-based violence, yet I find myself increasingly fascinated by the leniency we afford men when their conduct raises serious questions about women’s safety.

[Chloe @iam_Chloe6069]

You sound like a bitter Ex just bcz bravo called you out for being a bully, you decided to use something happened in 2024 where he took accountability and went to the victim and apologised, they made peace. They came back to the same show in 2026 through second chance.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

You should have called out Yolanda your friend bcz she was also disqualified for the same thing in 2024.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

You should have called out Yolanda your friend bcz she was also disqualified for the same thing in 2024.

[Thandeka Tshabalala @ms_ttshabalala]

In 2024, a reality television contestant was disqualified following a recorded conversation involving sexually inappropriate remarks about intoxicated women. The broadcaster acknowledged the seriousness of the incident. Yet he was subsequently welcomed back onto national television.

What I find particularly revealing is that recordings also exist of him confidently declaring that he would win. He did not win, but he finished in the top three.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@Tee1150640 And car*

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@Tee1150640 Atleast he has a bond and good paying job not depending on people.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@oreogumede lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[YolieT @Yolie909]

Someone went to spill about reunion but it’s Liema who get featured on the news 🤣🤣life has no balance 🤣🤣🤣

[Sowetan @Sowetan1981]

'Take the chance, be authentic and give it everything you’ve got,' says 'Big Brother Mzansi' season 6 winner Liema. https://t.co/qiSk5ua0Py

[Chloe @iam_Chloe6069]

Thandipipi shabalala is behaving like a bitter eX.

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@Thorii_Corner Show me a pictures of Khosi, Mpho, Guluva holding the cheques

[YolieT @Yolie909]

@stanley2049438 Bcz she was so desperate to win that’s why she couldn’t take her loss. “Bitter loser “

[YolieT @Yolie909]

I Love them🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣