@Yena_I_Am Dramatic, yes. Entitled, never.
I’ll never cut someone off just because they couldn’t physically make it to my family commitment in the event of their own family commitments. Borderline entitlement
People need to be present in times like these. Be fully in. Mourn. Cry and throw yourself on your aunts bosom. Observe the ceremony. The tradition. Bereave. Make use of the community around you. It’s significant. It’s sacred. It’s for your healing. It’s symbolic. Leave boys.
I’m sorry , you guys literally have sexual intercourse with men who didn’t marry you but you draw the line at them attending your parents’ funerals because that’s deemed disrespectful in your “African culture”?
@Zet_Ndlovukati@Yena_I_Am@Naroliehealing Ubhujelwe ngumzi and there are people who came for you to hold space, embrace you, and wena ufuna umfana? Ongazalani nozalana naye?
Look now, the discourse is about their relationship rather than the life of her mother and her beautiful send off.