so it appears I can't remember what four-digit passcode I chose to secure my DMs, guess i ought to have written it down
found an ancient 2016 account I could commandeer for an imressive registration date, as I am unlikely to commandeer the 2009 one
I'm realizing I give people too much the benefit of the doubt, take them at their word, and either they change or weren't who they said they were but I was too enamored to notice.