It's essential for the person seeking a life partner to consider their own values and what they truly desire in a relationship. Being with a well-settled partner can bring financial security and comfort, which may be important in certain situations.
Ultimately, it's essential to find someone who complements your values, goals, and vision for the future. Seeking a well-settled partner can be a valid preference, but it's just one aspect to consider when looking for a life partner.
O Allah, Lord of this perfect call and established prayer, grant Muhammad the status (a unique lofty status in Paradise) and pre-eminence, and resurrect him to the praiseworthy station that You have promised him.
If you want true fulfilment, make an oath by Allah that there is no other way to find it except through him, Allah. The creator of The Heavens and The Earth. Every other place you seek happiness in that is in absence of Allah, will only leave you Empty and Miserable.
Ask yourselves repeatedly,
"ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY?"
We have fallen in love with something that will never love us back. And it will continue to break our hearts until we have realise this painful truth.
"لاَّ إِلَـهَ إِلاَّ أَنتَ سُبْحَـنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ الظَّـلِمِينَ"
(La Ilaha Illa Anta Subhanaka Inni Kuntu Minaz Zalimeen)
“…There are none worthy of worship besides You. Glorified are You. Surely I am from the wrongdoers.” (21:87)