Let's normalize stepping away from unsupportive friends and family. Not just online, but in real life too. You don't owe space in your life to anyone who dismisses your growth, downplays your struggles, or only comes around when it serves them. Protect your peace. Set clear boundaries.
I ain’t never claimed to be innocent. 😭 I’ll tell you exactly where I was wrong. I’ll apologize when I mean it. I’ll own my attitude, my mouth, my decisions. What I WON’T do is let somebody paint me like I woke up and randomly chose violence. 😂 Every version of me somebody hates was created by an experience they conveniently leave out. I’m not proud of every reaction… but I know exactly what triggered it. That’s the difference.
Before you pray for anything else, ask God to reveal your own heart. Pray for the humility to recognize your own flaws, blind spots, and areas where you still need to grow. It’s easy to point out someone else’s mistakes, but we all fall short. The more aware you become of your own need for God’s grace, the more you’ll choose compassion over judgment. “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” — Psalm 139:23–24 (KJV)
God, thank You so deeply for taking me as I am while also giving me room to grow. Continue to correct & guide me. Don’t allow anything that You don’t bless distract me from the path You created for me God. Let solely Your will take place. All the glory belongs to you God. Amen🩷
At my age, I’m not letting a soul stress me out. Not a man, Not a job, Not my family, Not my friends. I will separate myself so fast- silently & permanently💯.