Intelligent people struggle with addiction. Their minds need more. More depth. More to disappear into. They have obsessions nobody around them shares. Philosophy. Literature. Astronomy. Documentaries. Quantum physics. Dostoevsky. Kant. Books, music, films, ideas they've gone so deep into that ordinary conversation starts to feel like small talk. And small talk feels like suffocation. So... they drink. Work until 2 am. Doomscroll until they feel nothing. Because there is a gap between who you are and the conversations available to you. And sometimes, that gap becomes unbearable. And it's one of the loneliest places a person can live.
The problem we have is we are mostly insincere with ourselves. Just like you said, there is a reason Allah prohibits going near it. Because going near it guarantees falling into it except the one Allah saves.
Wallahi not many men have the strength to resist the advances of a girl that wants to have fun. Look at that guy, after frantically trying to resist her, he eventually still bowed to her dictates. The schemes of women can make and break a man.
In a way, the removal of the subsidy has exposed a lot.
If it had not been removed, they would probably still be telling you today that the reason we lack world-class hospitals, good roads, better education, and reliable electricity is because we were ‘wasting’ money on subsidy.
This community transformer racket has to stop completely. It is daylight robbery disguised as community self-help, and the regulatory double standard is sickening.
Look at how the power sector works in Nigeria:
When a community transformer blows up, the DisCo goes deaf. You write letters, make calls, and nothing happens. Six months down the line, residents are suffocating in darkness, small businesses are dying, and fuel prices are draining everybody's pockets.
Out of sheer desperation, landlords gather, task every household 50k, 100k, or more, and scrape together 5 to 8 million Naira to buy a brand new transformer, buy heavy copper cables, and pay for poles.
The moment that equipment is energized, the DisCo claims it as company property. They add it to their network balance sheet, and within two weeks, they start distributing Band A and Band B bills. If you do not pay, they disconnect you with the ladder leaning on the very pole you bought with your own sweat.
How can a private, for-profit utility company take free capital equipment from struggling citizens, pay zero interest, give zero equity, and then charge those same citizens full price to use it?
If NERC mandated that customers who pay upfront for meters under the MAP scheme must be refunded their money over time through energy credits, why does the exact same logic not apply to transformers?
A meter costs 100k to 150k and you refund it via monthly energy units.
A transformer costs 6 to 10 million Naira funded by an entire street, and you pretend it was a charitable donation to a private entity?
This injustice has to end.
If a community is forced to step in and buy infrastructure because a DisCo failed its obligations, NERC should make automatic amortization mandatory:
Every single household on that street that contributed to buying that transformer should have their meter credited with monthly energy units until the full cost of the asset, cables, and installation logistics is completely paid back.
You cannot let private DisCos enrich their asset portfolios with crowd-funded community blood and then charge those same people premium tariffs for power. If DisCos want to own the asset, they must refund the people who paid for it.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
The Veranda
Why did we stop building verandas like this?
They weren’t wasted space
Shade. Airflow. Outdoor living. A quiet connection between the house and the garden
Sometimes the smartest part of a building is the space between inside and outside.
Africa Built Beautifully
It is also the job of the governors on the eastern maritime corridor (SE & SS governors) to be deal makers and deal promoters, and earn their sweat equity while on it. Unacceptable that there’s no FID on expanding Onne or getting Ibaka (Ibom) bankable.
Criminal negligence.
Why I know that increasing tuition to 1m per student won’t solve anything is cause when they increased the tuition when I was in Unilag from around 21k to 250k, nothing changed.
Classrooms were still leaking during rain, laboratory reagents were still unavailable, etc.