My spouse saying to the four year old about his brother, "He is telling you about it because he's excited, not because he thinks you don't know." And that, my friends, is also a lesson I need to hear.
happy pride month to all the neo-pronoun users & the micro label hoarders & the lesbians on t & trans women who dont voice train & nonbinary drag queens & trans men that let em hang your queerness doesn't not have to be palatable for you to be valid or for us to be family!
It's important to remember that even trans people do the top to their friends for a little bit immediately after they come out because that's how the human brain works, but it really isn't that hard and you unlearn it in like 2 days