Ziead.

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[Ziead. @ZHARHASH]

حديثٌ إلى الله

[Nadeen Abdulaziz @nadeenabdulaziz]

هتكون بتعمل لنفسك معروف لما ما تخفيش أي جزء من نفسك عشان خايف إنه ما يتلقاش إستحسان بدال ما تخفيه و تلبس أقنعة و يتم قبول القناع بدال ما يتم قبولك إنت.

[Ziead. @ZHARHASH]

أن نجعل الأشياء التي هربنا منها طويلا تمسك بنا، فلا نحتاج إلى الهرب أكثر

أن تلحق أياديها بأطراف ملابسنا الطائرة وراءنا من أثر الاندفاع دون محاولة منا للإفلات

أن نغمض أعيننا ونقف في أماكننا لتصطدم بنا وتأخذنا إلى حيث لا نعلم

ربما وقتها نتخلص من إحساس القلق الذي يطاردنا.

[Billy @0Coldblood]

الحب هو اكتشاف عيوب شخص كنت فاكره مثالي

​وادراك انك مش عايز شخص مثالي.. انت عايزه هو

[hera @shiningdaisies]

let me regulate my nervous system and i'll get back to you

[y @ysuckme]

Eyes talk.

[〽️ @Tender_TR_]

After they give up on you, make sure you become everything you once told them you wanted to become

[Feelings ღ @hurtingtextmsgs]

If we never talk again, remember I love you.

[kemii @kemii99]

one thing I deeply appreciate is when someone stops doing what i said i don't like. i sincerely value those who take my feelings into consideration

[Libriscent @libriscent]

The scariest thing about attachment is that the person holding your heart often has no idea how much damage they can do.

[Goddess🥀 @Swit_zee]

POV: your favorite person turns out to be another life lesson

[Nadeen Abdulaziz @nadeenabdulaziz]

إزاي تتعامل مع الشخص اللي عنده Avoidant Attachment Style؟

١ - ما تجلدهوش و تلومه لما ما يعملش حاجات معينة تجاهك هو إختار ما يعملهاش بنفسه زي إنه يقولك كلام حلو مثلًا و هو ما قالهوش بنفسه لإنه هيحس إنه مفروض عليه يعمل حاجات بدافع الواجب بدال دافع الحب، ف....

[Nuelxx @nuel_szy]

Crazy how avoidants can turn a secure partner into an anxiously attached person, then suddenly leave saying they can’t do this anymore while their partner is left drowning in self-doubt and abandonment trauma.

[bojack horseman bot @bojackhbot]

i’m sorry i’m not the person i thought i was.

[Ϟ @XqiuzX]

Mistreating someone on purpose with hopes of them leaving so you don’t have to take responsibility for the break up is a different kind of evil.

[𝕊ડs𝕥ꪗꪶꪖr ✰ @wtfisSss]

Heavy on I’m not even mad at you. That’s just who you are. That’s your character. You’ll never change. Be that, but I won’t ever deal with it again.

[𝕊ડs𝕥ꪗꪶꪖr ✰ @wtfisSss]

bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

Dismissive avoidants don't want to fix things. They want to keep you in a cycle where they can do whatever they want, then make you the problem when you speak up for yourself.

With a dismissive avoidant, the moment you try to address an issue, suddenly you're the problem. They ignore your needs, avoid real conversations, and do whatever they want-but if you dare to speak up, they act like you're attacking them. It's a manipulative cycle designed to shut you down and keep them from taking responsibility.

You're not asking for too much. You're just dealing with an unhealthy person who doesn't do accountability.

[𝓐⭑ @ayogiovanna]

The funny part is that avoidant isn't scared the relationship would fail.
He was scared it would succeed.

[𝓐⭑ @ayogiovanna]

I once asked an avoidant what they were thinking during a healthy relationship.
They said:
"Mostly waiting for the part where it goes wrong."