Just because someone keeps you around doesn’t mean they’re choosing you. People keep you close because they like having access to you. They like your attention, your comfort, your loyalty, the way you’re always there when they need you. But being wanted when it’s convenient isn’t the same as being intentionally chosen. Choosing you means being clear about wanting you in their life. It means showing up, making an effort, making room for you and giving you something solid enough that you don’t have to constantly question where you stand. Don’t confuse being kept around with being chosen. You deserve someone who doesn’t just want access to you. You deserve someone who genuinely wants a life with you.
my biggest flaw is probably my sickening need to feel desired and also my attachment issues and my lack of self worth and fear of abandonment that makes me lose all self respect and also my willingness to forgive and forgive and forgive and forgive and forgive and
i didn’t love you because i was lonely or because i needed someone to pull me out of myself. i had already learned how to exist in my own darkness. i was okay there. i fell for you because something about your light made me curious about what life might feel like outside of it. you didn’t save me from the shadows. you simply made me want to leave them.
@claudia_alej Conozco ese dolor,
Es tan fuerte que es imposible de contener las lágrimas, el
Dolor sentimental es un dolor físico difícil de explicar. Te duele todo el cuerpo, te falta el aire y la opresión en el estómago es terrible. Llorar es la única forma de saber que puedo salir de esta.
o homem que eu quero não quer nada comigo e consequentemente não quero nada com outros homens também então declaro encerrado meu 2026, talvez em 2027 eu tente novamente