The same arguments keep reappearing. You begin referencing old arguments and the habitual negative behaviours as they become more apparent.
Every defended boundary becomes easier, as they begin to fatigue.
You have become the new relentless force. The new standard for being.
You may not like to read this, but pain, intolerance, and rage are the cornerstone of personal growth.
“Healing” isn’t the end all, be all.
It only really exists in a vacuum and serves to help you understand what’s important to you.
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It’s impossible to reconnect with people you’ve outgrown.
They’ll try to re-impose the previous relationship they’re familiar with.
The only way you can re-establish that relationship is by abandoning your thoughts, ideals, boundaries, and entire belief system.
You should never talk to people about your problems, even if they offer.
Talking simply gives you validation, and because you feel validated, you feel less bad, creating the illusion of progress in your life.
Doing the work is the only thing that created progress in life.
If you’re going through a challenging period, it’s best to stay quiet.
No one cares about you or what you have to say unless you can show proof that you’ve made it to the other side.
You just have to make it to the other side.
If the meaning of life is subjective, then life has no objective meaning.
If life has no objective meaning, then we all inherently become characters of our own making.