Being discerning with your time and your body, is the only way women will force men to elevate their lives and their efforts to even be given the time of day.
Don’t be out here completely devoid of self esteem, common sense and dating etiquette.
No one can make you feel any type of way unless you allow them to. You don't have any control over people and shouldn't care to change their opinions about you. You do have control over your own thoughts and actions, so focus on those things.