Validating how you feel is so important. The mind can be so toxic sometimes, but never invalidate anyrhing that you might feel, even if it doesn't make sense to you. Your emotions are valid.
I always supported the idea of treating people the way you want to be treated, and to an extent I still do, but surely not at the cost of getting mistreated or not being treated the way you'd like/expect๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ