I will do it once and do it right .. I will not endure marriage .. we will Enjoy it .. two souls one heart, with God in the center and all around it .. Amen 🙏🏾
Dear married men,
Have you had dinner?
Even if you are the one that provided for the meal, say & do this to your lovely wife.
"My lovely wife, thank you so much for the meal. It was as delicious as usual. I was waiting all day for it".
Then fuck her to oblivion.
Good night.
Yesterday we sent out 03 meals 😋
2 pots and a half of khati khati
1 pot stew
1 pot eru
It was a long day, but worth it 😊
If you need food for an event or to stock up your fridge, kindly dial my digits 650026022.
Yaounde.
Happy New Year guys.
By now, most people will tell you what to do in 2026. Tips and steps.
But I'm here to tell you what NOT to do in 2026.
There’s a concept I learned from Sandlers book that changed how I think about growth, and I believe it will help you stop wasting time chasing the wrong things this year.
Here it is:
Stop trying to become a 10.
You already are one.
Imagine you plant a rose seed in the ground.
What’s the value of that seed and everything in it?
It’s a ten.
After a couple of weeks of sunshine and water, a stem grows and appears above ground.
What’s the value of that stem?
Still a ten.
If you say it’s less than a ten, explain when it lost value. It didn’t.
The rose was a ten as a seed and it’s a ten now.
Just because your value is a ten doesn’t mean you stopped growing.
You grow all the time.
So what does this mean for 2026?
Stop treating yourself like you’re broken and need fixing.
Stop chasing programs that promise to “transform” you into someone worthy.
Stop believing you’re not enough until you hit some arbitrary goal.
You’re already a ten.
You always have been.
What you need to do is grow.
And growth is different from trying to become valuable.
When you understand you’re already a ten, everything changes.
You stop comparing yourself to people who are further along.
You stop feeling like an imposter.
You stop waiting until you’re “ready” to start that thing you’ve been putting off.
You realize you were always enough.
You just needed to grow.
Here’s what NOT to do in 2026:
Don’t spend the year trying to prove your worth to people who don’t see it.
Don’t wait until you feel “qualified” to pursue what you want.
Don’t measure your value by your current results.
Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.
Don’t treat growth like you’re fixing something broken.
You’re a ten.
You’ve always been a ten.
Now go grow.
I will be here always rooting for you.
Follow me @oyesiji_dolapo and I’ll make your year better with content that challenges how you think, shows you what works, and helps you grow.
“Sugar, let me call you.”
That’s the most effective way to resolve a quarrel with her over the phone.
If you’re with her in person, saying “Oya, come here” works like magic every single time.
Women can be such big babies sometimes😂😂😂
If your teenage son impregnates a teenage girl, you should hold that your son to account.
He must go through the same reality that the girl is forced into and you are not to protect him. You are not to shield him.
If that girl has to pause her education, that boy must pause his as well. If she has to attend antenatal appointments, he must go with her.
If she has to get a job to support her child, he must do the same. Adult actions have adult consequences, and your son must carry them too.
We need to stop excusing and covering up male wrongdoing.
It is rotting the society from the inside out.
The level of permissiveness is bad.
While we are raising girls to be cautious and responsible, we are raising boys to be defended no matter how harmful their behaviour is.
Stop protecting the men who harm others.
Stop shielding your abusive husbands.
Stop protecting your rapist brothers.
Stop hiding your sons’ predatory actions.
Stop making excuses for misogyny.
After years of pouring my heart into humanity, l've finally created a digital home for it. This website is a reflection of my passion, my process, and the work | love doing. Come take a look you might just find something that inspires you.
https://t.co/cba3fWpVGp
Thank you ❤️
Peace is not just a dream — it’s a journey we walk together.
@ the UN Assembly of Peoples, the world had a glimpse of the Cameroonian Peace Model — a story of resilience, hope, and the power of #SheBuildsPeace.
One people. One shared humanity. One fraternity.
@whatthewomensay
From Cameroon to Italy – Spreading the Peace Flame! 🇨🇲🇮🇹
Today, I was in Dalmine, Bergamo & Nembro, sharing the #CameroonPeaceModel.
where compassion meets peace in action.
Closed the day with the City Mayor, his office & com'ty of Nembro – peace truly knows no borders.
I recall one time, my father traveled.
I drove his Benz 230E and I scratched it.
I thought he would not notice.
When he returned from his trip, the kind beating wey that man give me eeeh.
Baba no dey joke with him Benz that time ooo.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
End.
That quiet moment of sitting and wondering - it's where dreams are born, fears are faced, and hope begins to whisper. The future may be uncertain, but it listens to the steps we take today.