My red flag is that if you don't talk to me, I won't talk to you either. But not because I don't want to talk to you, but because I think if you don't want to talk to me, I should give you space so I don't bother you
Hate to break it to you, but any friendship/relationship where the other person has unconditional access to you and they're only accessible to you when they choose to be, is not healthy no matter what it seems like. You're just too giving and selfless to see it but that's toxic.
AUTISTIC TRAITS THAT AREN’T TALKED ABOUT AS MUCH
OVER EXPLAINING, FINDING IT HARD TO LIE, INSOMNIA, REWATCH THE SAME SHOW/ MULTIPLE TIMES, DISLIKE BEING PERCEIVED BY OTHERS, A STRONG SENSE OF JUSTICE.