Women in their early 20s go for older men & hardly date their age mates.
Their logic is simple:
Those older men are more mature, wiser, richer, more stable & independent.
As usual, their age mates have no problem with this. They don't complain because they know every dog has its day.
They stay on the grind & level up while some of their girlfriends leave them for older men.
When these young men get older & decide to go for younger women, their unmarried age mates now in their 30s begin to shame their choice. Predatory they call it. Whereas they themselves enjoyed the company of older men in their early 20s.
The logic for the choice of these men can't be any simpler:
They insist that the older a lady is, the higher her chances of being in many relationships, thereby having many exes & a body count twice her age.
So they'd rather go for younger women because it is believed they generally stand a higher chance of being more fertile & having less sexual exposure overall.
These are the facts of the matter:
Be the judge!
There's this stereotype that only women are meant to be virgins while men are supposed to come with experience.
But that's wrong.
Everyone is called to live a life of purity.
Virginity is not gender based.
Almost everyone on earth wants a virgin as a partner both male and female.
Asking for what you are not is a form of hypocrisy.
If you're a virgin, you deserve a virgin.
If you're not a virgin, please lower the bar because you don't deserve a virgin.
Virgins for virgins
Non virgins for non virgins, and everyone goes home happy.
As I pick her for park, I drop her for house make she settle in because I don late for evening ball. I give her my ATM in case she wan buy anything cook before I come back from field.
Naso i see ₦11k debit, call her immediately: “Wetin you buy now now?” She say, “I fill gas 8kg.”
You fill 8kg as how baby? Since I buy that cylinder, I never fill 8kg for my life. Wetin we wan dey cook? Gas wey Hilda Baci take cook jollof that year no reach 8kg now😭.
Na that moment I know say i no fit marry
anytime soon
You’d have to be remarkably absurd to think I need to know the author’s inspiration before I can question the generalization her title makes.
I don’t expect you to understand that anyway.
I went jogging at Elekahia stadium and somehow ended up in a heated argument with one guy. We were almost fighting before people separated us. Omo after my run on my way out of the stadium, I saw him teaching people martial arts. God will always look out for his children. 🙄