Especially when you’re a good person. They love how it feels to be genuinely valued by you until receiving your energy requires responsibility and accountability.
Hello??
You’ll have to do the heavy lifting until I’m convinced enough to like you back.
Because I was literally minding my business. You saying you like me doesn’t automatically mean I’m going to like you back.
My gospel will always be your interest in me is your responsibility until it becomes mutual. If you show interest in me first, you need to give me a reason to become interested in you. I don't owe you the same level of enthusiasm simply because you've decided you like me.