the worse are the ones that even tweet things that appeal to the girls
like you can clearly see they don’t believe what they are tweeting but they want to twerk.
They have many toasters and most of them would rather spend more time benefiting from multiple talking stages than being in a genuine relationship.
I spent time with one a certian time and on the 3rd day I felt it was getting one sided so I stopped. The next time we met I could tell she missed my attention but one thing she said struck my mind. "We would have been a thing cos I really like you and you already made it to number 2 so fast". I told her "I'm sorry, I don't want to be in competition with anyone" and that was where our talks ended.
Trust me most of them are like this. It's also a reason they don't do so well in relationships unless they genuinely fall in love. The options are more of a disadvantage to their love life hence their single status.
I have realized that the same way men get upset when women say they want a provider online is the same way women get upset when men say they want a woman who cooks.
In reality both genders love to play these roles for their partners. The only problem is when the demand looks like entitlement.
That thread of married men sharing their marriage experiences. 🥴
80% of the replies are about financial struggles, & theyre blaming their wives for "bringing bad luck" instead of seeing that Nigeria's economy is the primary reason.
One person even said his wife is a corper. You people clearly don’t knw the value of a two-income household.
You'll intentionally target young girls with no jobs while you're earning peanuts yourself, then turn around & complain about financial hardship after marriage.
You want a patriarchal lifestyle on a ₦150,000 salary? Better marry your agemate & build together by pooling resources.
Being unemployed is arguably the worst thing that can happen to anyone. This is because unemployment often goes hand in hand with poverty, especially when it lingers for too long.
I’m talking about the kind of unemployment where you do not have any form of hustle. Not a business, not a skill, not anything that puts food on your table. Just a jobless adult.
It is even worse when you once had a job and then lost it. Or when you are a graduate with good degrees and still cannot find work.
It is so depressing because while everyone wakes up every Monday to Friday morning preparing for work, opening their laptops, or heading out to their businesses, you are staring at your ceiling like it is a normal Saturday.
With no hope of where your next meal is coming from, you are constantly panicking because time is not on your side. You keep refreshing your emails, but it is still the same rejection messages staring back at you.
And one of the most frustrating things about being unemployed is how people begin to advise you as if you have stopped using your brain. They tell you to take any job, as long as you are doing something.
They will advise you to take a teaching job, work as a sales rep, receptionist, or any other kind of job they can think of. They do not even care whether you have the passion or the zeal to teach.
You cannot even ask for help because it feels like you are bothering people who are actually working for their money with your own problems.
It gets to a point where you cry yourself to sleep. You went to school, graduated with good grades, and did everything you were told to do, yet you are finding it incredibly difficult to secure a decent job.
You get job offers, but most are offering to pay you ₦100,000. You calculate the cost of transportation alone, and it simply does not make any sense to accept those jobs.
You just stay online doomscrolling, sending reels to your friends at work, and having mood swings at the end of the day when you look back and realize that you did absolutely nothing with your day.
Such a sad place to be.