This is a perfect case of how a lived-experience can be true and valid, but it is limited and cannot be universalised or extrapolated as objective & empirical fact.
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Your partner allowing his calls to still come through is a sign that she doesn't respect you as her man. The buck starts and stops with her. If he's still getting hold of her then the "our" in "your girl" is silent.
oh youโre โbrutally honestโ but are you ever honest about the good stuff? do you compliment peopleโs positive traits and behaviors? or do you only open your mouth or fix your fingers to be โhonestโ when youโve got something negative on your mind