For any woman who needs to hear this: there are caring men out there, men who will sit and listen when something bothers you, take accountability, apologize, and stay aware of how their behavior affects you. Don’t settle.
The scariest part of life isn’t change. It’s how fast Allah can flip everything. One night you’re drowning in sin, the next morning you’re running to Fajr. One month you’re chasing Dunya, the next you’re begging Allah for Jannah. One year you feel unseen, the next you’re surrounded by barakah you never imagined. Life doesn’t move slow. Allah can turn your entire story in a single dua.
after fajr, try reading surah yaseen. after magrib, try reading surah al waqiah. after Isha, try reading surah mulk and last two verses of surah baqarah. and see how your life changes and become beautiful.
LET THAT MAN GO. you're not holding on because you love him so much. you're holding on because you're hoping he will change and treat you the way you deserve. you keep telling yourself that maybe one day he will act right, but if he wanted to, he would have already done it. his actions, the excuses, and the broken promises already show you his character. you don't have to stay in pain just to be chosen. and love should not be something you have to beg for.
Sometimes the kindest thing Allah will do is to let you hit rock bottom with the wrong person and things. Then you'll understand the pain isn't punishment it's the clarity you kept refusing. Allah loves you so much.
Quran says again and again
“And future will be better for you than the past” (93:4)
“If the hurt comes, so will the happiness” (94:5-6)
“So remember me and I will remember you” (2:152)
stop letting people manipulate you into believing all you wanna do is argue when you’re speaking on what they did to you or how they made you feel .. that’s a narcissistic babe & you will NEVER win in their world. get as far away as you can!
If you want to do big things in life, you have to learn how to pray. Because some doors won't open with hustle, only with humility. Some mountains won't move with effort, only with du'a'. Prayer isn't just part of the process, it is the power behind it🤍✨