I hate seeing a calm person stay in a toxic relationship and slowly lose themself.
They start to get aggressive and argumentative because of constant manipulations, lies, and emotional abuse.
once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
I know in the past 2 years, I have quietly been changing. It wasn’t a grand plan just me changing how I show up from the past.
To some people it’s a good thing, to others they can’t just understand me anymore.
In the end I don’t care as long as I AM HAPPY.
You really have to pray for discernment bc the love of your life can pivot overnight. You need two ppl who are operating from the same internal ethics otherwise your reality will collapse without your consent.
When I say it, you will say I’m spreading hate.
Relationship with men automatically puts you on a losing streak, therefore if you want to enter such relationships, he should be aware and ready to even the playing field for you.
Entering horrible relationships with no mental, emotional and physical benefits just because of “Love” would set your generation back 100 years.
Enter relationship/marraiges like a business partnership, calculate the probable loss and gain using facts and precedence.
STOP USING EMOTIONS TO DECIDE YOUR FUTURE.
Many of you want great relationships but all you want to do is take.
There’s nothing great that comes out of always taking. Even friendships but you want life long partners while being a leach.
If you like stay online and let people deceive you that you are some sort of prize that no one can get tired of.
I don’t have a single friend who condones nasty behaviour… they will call me out on it! So I always check myself, even when I’m upset or unhappy, they’ll check me.
If I mess up or act out of line? They’ll tell it like it is , ‘Babe, that wasn’t right, go check yourself.’
I’m very particular about my friends, very very particular.
You need people like that in your life as an adult not yes people.
And they work, sometimes really really hard but the economic climate is so hard that saving substantial amounts to do something big is not feasible. Most especially amongst minimum or slightly above wage earners.
There’s this lady I follow. She’s got Down syndrome. She preaches the gospel regardless and is always thankful her parents didn’t abort her. I understand your emotions but can you stop for a second to ask what God’s plans concerning that child would be? We humans often forget that we aren’t God. We don’t have the right to kill and make alive (minus rare cases of justice where killing/persecuting is permissible). Only God does. Your emotions are valid but we must always go back to our lookbook: the Bible.
@Acedouglas01@Sunybery No... life doesn't work like that unfortunately.
serial killers live and die with their wives not even knowing. the kidnappers you're hearing of, beheading people have wives and children.
life no be ABCD.
Just moved in with my mom at 32 and I’m not ashamed to say it… I’m actually LIVING 😂🗣️ She hits me with: “Spending $1800 on rent is ridiculous. Save your money and move in with me. I don’t want to be in this big 5-bedroom house by myself.” Say less, Mama! I’m packed 😭 Now I’ve got my own room + bathroom, a whole separate office to work from, AND my own living area upstairs. I’m out here living like a grown woman with a built-in roommate who actually loves me.
Having parents who still got your back after 20s? That’s a flex I’ll never stop bragging about.
When you forget to cancel a subscription & you suddenly see a random notification saying “Payment Successfull, Your subscription has been renewed.”
lol so this is it? Since Covid I have been inside a church physically maybe 10x in total. I pray in my room and fammmmm I discovered something called true communion, my life has been going from one amazing stage to another. Good luck to those that listen to you.