Makukhanye. KubeChosi. Kubemhlophe. Kwande. Kulunge. Kuvuleke. KubeMerry.
May the light that shines in my life create sparkles in your life until your own light can penetrate through the darkness. May the mercies upon my own life be the ship that will help you sail through the..
oceans of your distress. May the beauty of spirit that governs me find you in your most vulnerable state, and show you the way. May you never be alone for as a long as I live. May you know true contentment, and salvation. And because of me, I hope the universe goes easy on you.
Ubomi is multiple income streams honestly. You need a job, a business, and a side hustle. Whatever you do, don’t sit on ideas that can generate you money. This life demands you to, it doesn’t ask you.
You need to be willing to be taught, and shown the way. You won’t always agree with people, but that doesn’t mean you are always right. Sometimes you need other people’s advises to change something in your life. Don’t cling onto your own ways so much, let people guide you.
Learn to value yourself the same way you do people. Take yourself as serious as you take even the people who take you for granted. You see how you protect other people's feelings, and mental state? Do the same for you.
There's absolutely no reason for switches. There's absolutely no reason to be a coward. You no longer feel the same? SAY SO!! You want different things? Say so. Never leave people hanging, and make them wonder what they did wrong.
As adults I don't know what's difficult with communicating. Whatever motions you are in, COMMUNICATE. You moody, and don't feel like talking? Say so. You going through something, but don't know what? Say so. You need space? Say so. You need company in silence? Say so.
You'd rather work on getting over someone rather than working on getting them to be about you. When someone shows you their ways, TAKE NOTE OF THEM. There's no need to wake up 5 years later with "I should have left a long time ago." Abantu basile, and they know.
People get used to to your forgiving, and understanding nature then never change. Apologies without change is manipulation. Stop being taken for a poes.
Abusive people don't only throw punches. You find it in gaslighting, silent treatment, and going MIA, lack of accountability - blameshifting. Abuse can be words, both spoken, and unspoken.
@Violin_Tay1 This message is for me. Decided to block, and delete contacts earlier on. I don't fucks with inconsideration at all. I don't care what you are going through, but you don't leave a person hanging. Switches are such hectic triggers. People can be so messy.