Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
I think one of the most important things to pay attention to is how someone treats you when they’re upset with you.
Anyone can be loving when things are going well. But can they communicate without becoming cruel? Can they express disappointment without trying to punish you? Can they handle conflict without threatening to leave, withdrawing affection, or making you feel like the relationship is suddenly at risk?
The way people love matters, but the way they handle hurt, frustration, and disappointment matters just as much.
"Some women carry curses and bad luck"
But if you marry the same women, they will bring you good luck and grace. LMAO
Enough of this Nigerian spiritual nonsense
Some Nigerians actually believe kidnappers will pick female victims, keep them for weeks and not touch them..
They just collect ransom and release them?
it is an ordeal no woman would want to share the experience.
Ever wondered why some after months of release they take their own lives?
Of course you don’t expect a lady who was kidnapped, àbûséd and gang raped to come out and tell you while she was there they gang grapped her.
Some will remain introverts for the rest of their lives.
Kidnap to a woman should never be experienced.
I watched a video of where a woman, a wife and mother of children was gang rapped by kidnappers in the bush. About 6 of them had their turn and were even laughing. They forced her to moan like she was enjoying it. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
They posted the video online and yet these bandit’s cannot be tracked?
This is a country where we have a President?
We have senators and all political leadership positions assigned to men who are supposed to be fathers, uncles, brothers and leaders?
How did things get this bad in Nigeria?
How did we get here?