Change him into your spec” sounds romantic until you realize you’re auditioning for the role of life coach.
You can communicate your needs, encourage growth, and decide what you can live with but you cannot remodel another adult into your ideal partner.
Sometimes the wisest move isn’t “change him” or “divorce him.” It’s simply: be honest about who he is, who you are, and whether the two of you actually fit.
“Your biggest mistake as a man is for you to see a woman as an investment. Instead of investing in yourself, you’re investing on a woman. You will later regrêt it” — Lady says
The idea of Rule of law is alien to the average Nigerian
The Policeman had to calmly explain and say even if the guys in the office let’s him go, they could get in trouble as the courts is the highest authority in the land.
For people used to lawlessness, he’s surprised seeing rule of law.