Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cuz im not auditioning for treatment i know i deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play w me.
This dude on tiktok said, “Men are supposed to lead and you niggas are going tit for tat with her behavior. Are you not acting like a bitch? What would you call that?” Lmfaooo HE ATE!
In case you weren’t raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted 💡
1. i don’t know how to express my feelings
2. i don’t like asking for help
3. i don’t know how to check up on people
4. i’m an overthinker
5. i’m quick to say nvm or leave it
6. i like being alone
7. i can’t express affection too much
8. i’m observant