…so why haven’t you. plenty of babies and children are currently up for adoption, and instead of adopting them you’ve opted to virtue signal in a way that dog piles on a young couple for making the smartest decision for themselves and their potential baby.
bringing a child into the world that you knowingly cannot care for is infinitely worse than whatever you people (delusionally) think of abortion. enough.
sounds like two people responsible and self-aware enough to know what they’re equipped to handle, and opted to avoid bringing a child into the world who would suffer and they would resent. 🤷🏾♀️
When I was a sensitive young man, I was dating this woman who spilled her trauma early on. She got beat, threatened with a weapon, sexually assaulted, all of it.
It broke my heart
Well, when I was a child, it happened to me too
I thought I could tell her. I was wrong
A couple months in we were sitting at the dinner table, I was getting ready to tell her, I had never told anyone. Before I could, and I don't remember how it got brought up, she said one of her ex boyfriends told her that he got SAed as a child. "It was gross" so she left him.
It was almost like she could read my mind and was trying to prevent me from telling her. So, in the moment I didn't. But, I thought I was different, so, a month later I told her anyway.
It felt like a weight off my shoulders, and, she began showing me some compassion. For about 30 seconds. Until she started talking about "her experience" and how "this affects her".
She started fighting with me, mainly, just her yelling, because I was sitting there dumbfounded.
Then she left, went HR mode and blocked me.
Because of this meme, which, I thought was just a joke, I learned this is pretty common. And, I mean, just look at how someone online reacted to me sharing my experience.
So, unless I find my wife on Twitter (🤞) and is reading this right now, my wife will never know the truth.