we can’t label whitney as either a lesbian or bisexual because she never spoke about it publicly; that marriage might have been purely for convenience, and she may never have loved that miserable man. we can only say she liked women and that's it.
@wishmeluxury@emlemmy17@viiisnthere @Leaveselaine I'm femme, not masc
We are not saying anyone is entitled to attraction from WLW. The issue we are criticizing is the way butch and masc women are treated and spoken about. The homophobia within and outside the community where masc women are often misgendered or called men
@wishmeluxury@emlemmy17@viiisnthere @Leaveselaine Omfg
I didn't say you HAVE to be attracted to all expressions of gender. I said attraction to women INCLUDES all expressions of gender.
I love being a lesbian, I love being les4les, and I love masculine lesbians, and knowing that masculine lesbians are not comparable to men and men don’t own masculinity 🙏🙏🙏
This ignores lesbians unique relationship with heteronormativity because they have no attraction to men and the patriarchy is not meant for lesbians to exist in peace- sincerely a bisexual.