some men want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. worst mindset to have with me cause i’m not auditioning for treatment i know i deserve. the minute you pursued me was the minute you know my worth. don’t play with me.
I’m unapologetically doing what’s best for me including all things that make me happy even if it means I’m entering my selfish/“villain” era I really don’t care .
My 20s definitely taught me there's no point in doubling back on anything. No friendship, not a relationship, not a Job. Once it has ran it's course, move accordingly. It's your job to take the lesson, add it to character, and move on.
I thought I was good at forgiving people and l'm actually not, I might over look it for a lil bit but when I think about it again, I don't like you again.. cause why would you be that type of person.
Tbh if you've found a true and genuine girl friendship, you're lucky, I mean those types where you help each other grow, talk about everything, do things together, or feels like a sister bond from another mother, you're really lucky🤗🤗.
She's not giving you the silent treatment, she's distant because she knows your defense is going to be as draining as the original action that violated in the first place. She would much rather walk away than be manipulated by an apology that doesn't come with changed behavior.