cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
One thing about me.. I’m gonna evolve. I don’t care what mindset I had a week ago.. everyday I wake up wanting better, thinking wiser & moving closer to the woman I pray I become
I have taken time to check my life, and I realized i don't like begging.
That is why I'm asking God to never put me in a position where I'll have to beg to survive.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
There is absolutely nothing more pleasing than watching yourself do the things you said you’d do. I really value honoring the promises I’ve made to myself.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.