They’re arguing with you because they want to infantilise women,as though women are incapable of making choices that can also harm other people. Sure,the married man approached me. But as an adult,why am I actively participating in behaviour that enables him to cheat on his wife?
I love how my culture reveres female friendship. A “maseve” is a woman’s lifelong best friend. People did parties (swiseveseve) which were basically platonic marriages between women.
1. You propose to a woman you want as your maseve.
2. You plan a party where your family goes to hers with gifts.
3. Her family comes to your family with gifts and another party ensues.
Vuseve is forever 🥹😭 and everyone knew who your maseve was.
BRING BACK SWISEVESEVE
And this is why I say no matter how much you do right as a woman, you'll always be on the receiving end of patriarchy because she "saved" herself for marriage and married her childhood pezzen yet she's still tasting the wrath of patriarchy.
Call me woke but what we're not going to do is this.
These 2 men never considered us to be humans. We were literal animals in their eyes!
Asking the audience "who's sexier?" between the literal architect of apartheid and the enforcer thereof... shame on you!
I love being a bm my bd might have cheated my whole pregnancy he might fuck other bitches from time to time & disrespect me but ima keep fucking him cause I carried his child u bitches could never take my spot u see how stupid I sound ? That’s how stupid yall bitches be sounding!
Nna I think money just gives women power to walk away from situations that are bad for them, e se kgang ya gore they don’t need men. They know they do. They just don’t need bad men