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[Llona @Boyllona_]

Oct 1, 229 London, Portland street, my first live performance in London.

Come prepared! ⚔️

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

Ladies in France and the rest of Europe, please come closer.

This one is for you. 😂

A gentleman reached out to me privately, and since we are here to help one another, let me bring his matter to the marketplace.

He is 37, Nigerian, based in France, single, and intentional about marriage.

He is not looking for pen pals or a relationship that will remain permanently inside WhatsApp.

Baba wants something serious and committed that can lead to marriage.

His genotype is AA.

His preference:

•Nigerian lady, 27 to 34

•Based in France or elsewhere in Europe

•Preferably from the South-South, South-East, or North-Central

•Single and without children

•Emotionally ready for a stable, committed relationship

•Values honesty, respect, understanding, and family

If this description sounds like you, or you know a good woman who fits the bill, kindly indicate interest.

Please, serious people only. Let us not turn somebody's search for a wife into another season of Big Brother Europe. 😂

May the algorithm take this post to the right woman.

Send DM make I connect you.

AJD.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A married woman sent me a DM last night.

She said she saw my tweet about how my wife wrote a prayer concerning me when I didn’t have a job for 3 months.

“Good evening Agba, I’m in a similar situation at the moment and please I don’t know if I can talk to you about it.”

I replied this morning.

“Please be brief.”

She explained that her husband lost his job and things have been difficult at home.

He was working with a construction company as an electrical engineer, but according to her, the company left Nigeria months ago.

The painful part was that the man didn’t even tell his wife immediately. She only found out about 2 months ago.

He has been trying.

Small contract jobs here and there. He also DJs as a side hustle.

But things are still tight.

They have 2 children.

Rent is ₦1.2m.

School fees is there.

Her own business is also struggling.

She said her husband has been down for weeks and she is worried about him, especially because he is diabetic and she doesn't want his BP going up because of all this.

Now this is where her question came in.

She has some hairs, and a phone.

She was thinking of selling two of her hairs and downgrading her phone so she could raise money and sort out some of their immediate bills.

But she was going to do it behind her husband.

Her question was:

“If I do this, will I be enabling him?”

I asked her:

“How old is your marriage?”

“6 years plus.”

“How old are you guys?”

“I’m 28. He is 30.”

Then I asked what the husband was doing before he lost his job.

That was when she explained the electrical engineering/construction company situation to me.

I asked her how much she thought she could raise from selling her things.

She said the phone could go for around ₦1.2m. The two hairs about ₦450k, although the hair vendor said she would have to sell them first before paying her.

Then she would still need to buy a smaller phone.

“So I can raise 1.5 from my end, minus my new phone expenses.”

I asked one more question.

“Was he the one that bought the phone and hairs for you?”

“Yes sir.”

Okay.

That answer was important to me.

I told her:

Please go ahead and do what you want to do. And when your husband asks where the money came from, tell him the truth.

You are not enabling a lazy man. You are supporting your husband when it is obvious that the man is down. There is a difference.

I also told her that after giving him the money, she should sit him down and talk to him.

Something along the lines of:

“My darling husband, I have been watching you and how troubled you have been. Let’s use this money to secure our rent so you have some breathing space to find another job. I believe God will come through for you. When he does, you can replace what I sold. But I don’t want to lose you. We are too young for this. Life has ups and downs.”

She replied:

“😂 okay but you know these things. I’m still angry a little o. But I’ll do it when he wakes up.”

I asked:

“Angry for what na?”

She said because selling her things was a hard decision and she had gotten angry with her husband the previous night.

Then she added something that made me laugh.

“I don’t want to let down his ego but his shakara is too much. He suppose to be hailing me 😂”

I asked if the husband already knew she wanted to sell the things.

She said no.

She only told him:

“I’ll find a way.”

And apparently the man probably doesn't even believe she can find the money because the amount is much.
I just replied:

“Alright.”

From what she told me, this man is trying.

Contract jobs.

Side hustle.

Looking for a way out.

So no, I don't think helping your husband in such a season means you are enabling him.

Today you may have to carry him.

Tomorrow na him fit carry you.

That is what partnership is about.

Just ensure that you apply wisdom.

And madam, when the man finally bounces back, make sure he remembers those things.

Especially the hairs.

Those ones must come back with interest. 😂

End.

[Khan 🧢 🌟 @Khanstilldayy]

Dem don give Nigeria bad name eveywhere 💔

[Khan 🧢 🌟 @Khanstilldayy]

Boys don carry Juju enter GTA 😂

[OVP📍 @Ov_Philip]

Most women are jealous, Watch and bookmark ‼️

[OSINACHI @JayFunds32t4]

Nah only God know why you won be gay when all this things Dey 😒😒

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

As long as she's not a virgin and she's under 25, please know that the probability that she'll cheat on you by fucking another man is 90%.

The remaining 10% will cheat but they may not fuck.

The virgins too will have comma.

I have said my own.

End.

[CHUKS 🍥 @ChuksEricE]

Drama between a man and the driver of a Sienna vehicle after he blocked the vehicle for driving one-way, right in front of a police station. The man insisted that the driver must turn back and do the right thing.

📹: Kolamide // TT

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

Omoh, if dem carry this law come Naija, pris0n no go contain many women for here o😭🙆🏼‍♂️

[Sage Fc💥 @Iamdaniel_sage]

We have Chelsea fans Liverpool fans and spurs fans screaming yesterday and calling this a penalty. Thank God not everyone is as biased and stupid as you loydy

[afcstuff @afcstuff]

📲 Jurrien Timber on Instagram: “Hard to explain, but for those who understand. I’m so happy to be back.” 💛

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Gender roles spark a heated debate after a lady questioned why cooking is often considered a woman’s duty at home despite many professional chefs being men. A man’s controversial response has now got netizens talking

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

You and your siblings don’t owe each other nothing keh 🥹🧎🏻‍♂️‍➡️

[Somto Okonkwo @General_Somto]

“I’m Finished. My Whole Life Is Gone. All My Investments. Millions Gone. Phones, Laptops, Gadgets And Other Electronic Devices Were All Stolen.”~ Man Cries Out After His Phone And Gadget Store In Ijesha, Osun State, Was Broken Into And Robbed. 💔

[sureboy 🪖 @Asarailu_]

This is the most beautiful video you will watch today 🥹❤️

[GREEN_BERET!!! @3Star_GOD]

Put your ear down and listen to PST Femi Lazarus message.

If you like snooze as a man and learn the hardway! #Sentinel

[Maximilian @Maxtheairbnbguy]

Beautifully furnished 2 bedroom apartment with a sex dungeon, BDSM kits, private cinema, bathub and a content house (Mr bowler) is available

Location📍Chevron, Lekki
180k

[#WorldPresident 🌎 @Zlatan_Ibile]

Genesis 1:28

[Adedapo Adewale @Baba_beji700]

The nonchalant boyfriend 😂