Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
A big reason I desire a healthy relationship isn’t just for me anymore.
I want my daughter to see what it looks like when a woman is genuinely loved, pursued, respected, and cared for. And I want the person God sends to bring love, peace, and security to both of our lives. 🤍
Worst thing a man can do is HURT a GOOD WOMAN who only wanted to love him. But that's alright. She's only going to be down for so long. Once you realize that you're *BETTER OFF* without him? Things change. A woman who is loving a man, cooking for a man, covering her man, taking care of her man, elevating him, supporting him, standing by him, helping him be a BETTER man, helping him be a BETTER father, helping him in every way possible - is a STRONG woman. She's not stupid. She's not dumb. She's not silly. Because she OBVIOUSLY has enough to GIVE it to herself AND give it to another person. What's STUPID... is when somebody doesn't have enough sense to keep it. What's CRAZY is when somebody throws it all away for some OTHER woman who wouldn't even do HALF of what she does. Because in the end... that good woman is going to STILL walk away with the LOVE. She's STILL going to get loved. She's STILL going to glow up. She's STILL going to look flawless. She's STILL going to get her bag. She's STILL going to shine. I've NEVER seen a good woman become a WORSE woman. I always see a good woman become a BETTER woman. Once she's DONE with that HEARTBREAK... she's going to be HEALED and never look back. She'll cry tears today, tomorrow she'll send a thank you card. Because a good woman... will always get the GOOD that belongs to her
The beautiful thing about healing is realizing you’re no longer waiting to be chosen to enjoy your life. I want love, but I don’t need it to feel whole. What’s meant for me will come. Until then, I’ll keep loving the woman I am becoming. ✨
NFL legend Russell Wilson opens up about how he manifested his dream girl Ciara and reveals that he fell in love with her at first sight 🥹❤️
What Russ wanted in his dream girl:
-Woman of Faith
-Faithful
-Independent
-Similar to his Mom
-Tilt the room when she walks in
“I wanted somebody who’s similar to my Mom. My Mom was helping my Daddy when he was on his death bed… The moment I met her, it was just a bond right from the beginning… I knew it was gonna be something real.”
Having a man who chooses you daily, a man that makes time to talk to you no matter how busy his day gets, a man who craves your presence, values your friendship, respects your advice, and genuinely enjoys your company, a man who provides, protects & loves you with intention. Yes that's the man for me 🥹🥹
Being kind has gotten me taken for granted more times than I’d like to admit. Some people get so comfortable with your love they stop feeling like they have to do anything to keep it. 🤷🏽♀️💭