Ngl if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.
There was a time men took pride in providing and spoiling their women. Their woman was a representation of their hard work. Now they’re asking and complaining about what a woman can do for them and bring to table. They clearly need men too.
“dressing for your body type” = how broad your shoulders are. how short your torso is. how long your legs are. the ratio between your hips and waist. what you’re trying to accentuate or distract from, all should be accounted for when picking clothes.
My heart aches for Nigerian girls. They have no one to protect or defend them. Men abuse them, and women fiercely defend these men—even their own mothers. I am filled with rage. A girl can never truly be safe when the women around her are fucking devoted to male worship.
One thing I’ve learned in this life as a woman, men don’t have any issue eating up your good years. That’s why you gotta get in and get out fast if it’s unfit.