Unless they see results, people won't believe you tried.
The world judges effort by its outcome. If you win, you worked hard. If you don't, maybe you didn't try hard enough. That is the verdict, fair or not.
But effort and results are not the same currency. A man can give everything and still come up empty. The ground does not always reward the farmer who worked it hardest.
This is what makes failure lonely in a way that success never is. The person who succeeds gets witnesses. The person who tried and failed stands alone with something nobody can verify and most people won't bother to believe.
Try anyway.
I’m of the opinion that it is not hard to bounce back when you have the right resources/environment.
It is only hard when the environment is harsh.
Either ways, please be prudent 🙏🏾
No one talks about how hard the waiting season is. at this point you have prayed , cried , and exhausted all your options. you just sitting there hoping things will suddenly come together
im FOREVERRRRRRRR praying that i get my fairytale ending.. the dream career. the financial freedom. the friends. the family. the peace. the love... just everything tht i truly & genuinely deserve
My top 5 fears:
1. Being infertile
2. The day my parents pass away.
3. Marrying someone who settled for me cos they couldn't get who they truly wanted.
4. Losing my health before I get to enjoy the life I'm working so hard for.
5.Having an unsuccessful future.
Fortunately I’m a girl that’s okay with starting over. There will always be another lover, another job, other friends but never another life .
Always love yourself enough to walk away 🤞🏾🫶🏽