Bethany

Autism, ADHD, PTSD awareness. Trans Rights. BLM. LGBT+ Cats. Video Games. they/them fae/faer Ember Pixie Creations: @ember_pixie Banner by @Argodeonn

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

You know, I'm a multi-shipper. I've been with the FF7 fandom since day 1. FF7 was my very first RPG ever. It was the reason I bought a PlayStation. My only requirement is you can't be toxic around me. I write Tifa, Zack, and Cid. So I'm already a little out of the box.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

I picked a mystery egg just for you!

Use my invite code ZWKKSPDKVH once you get the app.

https://t.co/Ag1DFifcNw

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@h0lysarthole If you haven’t solved this yet, it did this to me too! I just had to space through the dialogue until it got past the awkward dialogue option and now he works fine again. 💜

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@DragonsofWales But do they not understand that by still being on Twitter, they’re still supporting him? If they wanted that moral high ground, they need to leave the platform entirely. Saying it’s the checkmark is an attempt to absolve themselves. Ugh. Why does creating have to be so hard.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@ElenaChatNoir Beach day beach day beach day 😂😂

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@BouncyMouse Lol! “I am about to bleed and be in immense pain WHAT DO YOU THINK THE PROBLEM IS”

I advocate yeeturus for anyone who wants one.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@ElenaChatNoir Tell them yes you are and then ask them to explain why it matters. While they’re writing the exceptionally toxic too long thread, block them.

/pettyaf

I think I’ve blocked most of the random at this point because ffs 20 years of this crap is too much.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@forestvanslyke We’re not nearly that age but my partner works a dangerous job and I think about this a lot. What would happen if they weren’t there one day. It’s *hard*. I’ve had them there since we were teenagers. So I think if you approach the convo with empathy, that’s the real trick.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@forestvanslyke So here’s my take:

Is he of sound mind? If so, I think it’s completely reasonable for the surviving partner to feel that way. I would suggest having a nonjudgmental conversation with them about how they’re feeling. It could be reactionary due to grief. Feeling lost. /1

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@Theholisticpsyc That’s not the problem though. The problem is when they learn better but triple down on their abusive behavior. For me, forgiveness comes with remorse otherwise it’s not forgiveness. It’s acceptance.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@madeiraglow_kel @Theholisticpsyc We had a “get it at school, get it at home” policy. So not only was their school allowed to beat me for whatever they deemed a problem, but then I’d get it at home for getting it at school.

Audadhd and I still remember every single time 30+ years later.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@RoninTheLeo @Theholisticpsyc Okay, no.

I can both understand what they went through and be frustrated and angry that they refuse to acknowledge it and continue the behavior. At some point, they get consequences for their actions.

Being a parent doesn’t give anyone a blank check to forgiveness.

[Cat Cosplay @Cat_Cosplay]

Happy #Easter!
Where the Bunny hangout at?

[maestro @ac_maestro]

Markiplier makes me feel so seen in this clip. ADHD fucking sucks. Mark is such a cool dude man…

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

I cannot stress how important it is to have a medical professional listen and see your struggles and actively work to fix it.

[smokey mcbongwater @themaggieshow_]

people think i’m afraid of covid because i’m afraid of dying. i’m not afraid of dying. i’ve been passively suicidal my whole life. i am afraid of becoming (more) horrifically disabled and unable to care for myself and others because of a virus.

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@adamfare1996 Oh my lords yes. “I don’t know how you handle it.”

I mean there’s two options. What else do you think I’m gonna do? The second option is vilified beyond belief too. I’m not strong for surviving. It’s literally the only option I have.

[JoSoHappy She/Her @JoSoHappy83]

Thinking of running socialisation skills courses for neurotypicals. Any takers? 😂😂

[StardustCreatives @StardustShop_]

Howdy, because of circumstances with medical things I mentioned before, i'm discounting my c0mms to $60 each.
I'm limiting to 10 slots to be able to cover everything coming out this month.
Please share if anyone is looking for a dice set deal
Link below ⬇️

[No Nonsense Neurodivergent @NoNonsenseND]

For real
#ActuallyAutistic

[Bethany @_Firewitchie_]

@sinannjewel @oldenoughtosay Same. It’s absolutely ridiculous how it’s still treated like hysteria.