You cannot teach consideration……people make time for what they want sometimes the vision you have with a person is not the reality they ready for 🫠 but never change on yourself ‼️
Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn’t make you more loved; it makes you more used. Trust me, they’d be fine without you. Being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.
Everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
one of the loneliest experiences in life is being known for how much you help everyone else while feeling like nobody really knows what you're going through
At some point you really have to tell yourself "this is not an experience I want to keep having" and stop entertaining things that don't benefit you in any way.