my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.
Studs swear you so insecure cause they hang around mostly fems . No you freaky fuck you forgot to mention two of them are failed situation ships and the other one is your ex that you decided you’re better off being fucking friends .
It’s so interesting to walk in this world as someone who doesn’t lead with sex when it comes to romantic relationships these days. Getting to know someone first for a while and then adding sex into the equation later just gives the relationship a different kind of vibe honestly.
normalize not reaching out to someone who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. they know they haven't spoken to you, and it's because they don't want to.