I don’t think people understand that you can literally drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on any level. Whether it is a friendship, relationship, or family. It’s only so much one person can take.
Everyone loves you when you let everything slide, but the moment you start setting boundaries and holding people accountable, you become the one that's difficult.
Stop dealing with people who don't have people in their life to tell them they are wrong. These type of people lack accountability, this is why they will do something wrong to you and still feel like they're right. Then find a whole bunch of yes people to co-sign their actions. They will go out their way to make you question logic instead of owning up to the truth. It's top tier gaslighting and a form of emotional & mental abuse. Y'all are always going to get into it. Leave them alone. Move on before you find yourself in a mental chokehold.
I cut friends off for not being as good of a friend to me as I was to them. I would've never put you in a situation to make y'all feel how I felt. I'm good to all my friends but I know when the energy is not returned. I'm a good friend, not a stupid friend. Let that sink in.
I don’t owe respect to someone who disrespected me first.
I don’t owe empathy to someone who mocked things they knew would hurt me.
And I certainly don’t owe sympathy to someone who knew exactly what they were doing and didn’t care.
Accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match..
Just apologize when you know that you fckd up. All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you, when they have a legit reason to be, is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable.
I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and walk away!
You'll never hear me complaining about anything I go through anymore. My mindset been different. I turn all of my losses into lessons & speak peace and prosperity over my life daily. Everything I want, I will have. What's for me will be for me. I'm going to be good regardless.