If a man expresses anger, he’s toxic.
If a man expresses fear, he’s a coward.
If a man expresses sadness, he’s weak.
If a man sets boundaries, he’s insecure.
If a man has standards, he’s a misogynist.
If a man expresses emotions, he’s a simp.
If a man shows no emotion, he’s heartless.
In the end do what is right by you, your family, and your creator. Nothing else matters.
Men are not "intimidated" by your degree, your corporate job, your tax bracket, or your fierce independence. They genuinely do not care about your resume. What modern women call "intimidation" is actually just a man walking away because your combative energy, constant need to argue, and refusal to yield is completely exhausting. You aren't intimidating; you are just insufferable to come home to.
It's been a tough road, but I don't regret my decision for a second. Giving up social media allowed me to focus on my mental health, and it gave me the space to rediscover who I am. It's not always easy, but I know that I'm on the right path.
(Trigger warning: depression)
It's been a while since I've logged into social media. The decision to give it up wasn't an easy one, but it was one that I had to make for my own well-being.
The truth is, social media was never a place where I felt at ease.