Kelda

#God first #Pisces Queen #100% grateful #No bitching around #0 level pride #Vibes 💯💯follow back 💯ment people everywhere, but I look up and stay focused

[Arsenal @Arsenal]

This is our moment.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

@zillionokoye I’m interested

[Unwanni✨🌸🇳🇬 @Iam_sistabibi]

“A married woman is a diety. You do not sleep with a diety.”

But you fit beat diety.
You fit cheat on diety.
You go carry infection from outside come give diety .
Shishi u no dey give diety.

Chike spices we thank u ooooooo

[Kunle Kenny -The Joy Dispenser @kunle_kenny]

I love seeing it when the “logical gender” narrative is shown to be a silly and false narrative. This week has been pure cinema.
No man who treats his wife/babe anyhow should have peace. Two wrongs don’t make a right, but don’t start the wrong and expect it to be alright 🫵🏿.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

Because you are filth won’t make me go mess myself but I will deal with you in my own way.
To ere is human na only God sabi who be Divine.

[Joice🤍🇧🇪 @Joiceoflagos]

The moment a partner cheats, they’ve licensed the other party to do the same.

——— Rev. Christy Bature

[Kelvin Novo @KelOnovo]

You said your wife cheated on you when we didn’t ask you- we believed you.

You said she accused you of DV even when we still didn’t ask you - we believed you.

You came out again and gave us news that she was deported to Nigeria and has gone back to her father’s house we still believed you.

Now she came out to say she didn’t cheat on you, and instead of you to continue the gist we didn’t ask you to start, you now say you no do again.

Dear Ugo, you must finish the gist you started.
We must see the end of it.
Show us evidence.

You brought issues meant to be kept discreet, and now you want to back out 😂😂😂😂 it’s not possible.

[16 @Josh__IK]

Una really foolish. Nobody go force una to marry, una go marry dey cheat on una wife.

Like wetin be the point of the marriage??? If they suggest open marriage dem go talk tufiakwa but you go use your hand open the marriage. Dem go paste your wife for you baba mi.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

@olateeman You just earned my follow
It hard to find people who reason holistically here.
They are gonna label you a simp but they go dey alright las las

[Ifediche @esther_stan]

Men crashing out because they monopolized cheating and Ugo’s wife flipped the switch this week.

[Angelica Kalu @angelica_kalu]

@d_ocheido If as a man, you think it’s okay for you to cheat on your wife, know that you’re cursed and God has cut you off.

If as a woman, you’ve been cheated on by your spouse, know that you’re free to divorce that man and God is on your side.

[Daddy Kross @daddy_kross]

Man carry another woman come house permanently.

Other men: He is capable. Mind your business

Woman carry another man come house for sharp sharp dogbo

Men: Ahhh women are wicked. My God!

Me:

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

@M777623M @NoFilterSkin This stance point is the only factual statement I have read up on this
Empathy is truly lacking and mercy when given is abused.

[Echo 🔆 @TheEcho13]

A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life.

If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

He was lucky she was sitting and waiting for his philandering to end

[Eminent_minds @minds_eminent]

My uncle divorced his wife in his forties.

Married someone else within a year.

Divorced her two years later.

Then remarried his first wife.

I asked him why.

His answer stopped me cold:

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

“Osas built her hair business from the ground up even before marriage. She was independent, and focused. But after she got married, everything changed. Her husband relocated her to Abuja and began to isolate her. He wouldn’t allow her to rent a shop. He wouldn’t let her stay connected with her family. He controlled her movements and her growth.

Despite all this, she kept pushing, continuing her business online, her hair business was doing so well online, her so-called horsband became jealous of her,

the fight started when the so-called horsband told her the marriage will be 50/50 Osas refused stating that she was already carrying the weight of the home, taking care of her children, including his child from before their marriage. That alone says everything about the kind of woman she was.

And now… this man has beaten her to death.

A whole life. A bright future. Gone.

What is even more heartbreaking is hearing that there are attempts to release him because of his influence. Influence? Over justice? Over a human life?

And then to make matters worse, some people are online saying she was wrong for not agreeing to 50/50. How did we get here? How did basic humanity become so twisted?

This is not just a story. This is Osas. Someone’s daughter. Someone’s friend. Someone who deserved to live.

We cannot stay silent.

Dear parents stop encouraging your daughters to stay patient in an abusive marriage”

Credit:Nancy Johnson

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

Half of the time, the “peace” a lot of men ask for when they talk about wanting a partner that brings peace is silence and acceptance when they misbehave or act disrespectfully.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

@ELROI4049 @TheOdin_II The word backfired is hilarious in this context. What good is a man that manhandled a child to her please? Educate us
Some reconciliation ain’t needed

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

Nothing pisses me off as the audacity to even label a woman you broke

[Libriscent @libriscent]

You call her toxic now.

But you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. Before the lies. Before the betrayal. Before she had to protect herself from you. She became guarded because you kept hurting her.
She became reactive because you kept crossing lines. She became tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn't toxicity. That was damage.

And expecting her to stay soft after everything you put her through is the real denial. You didn't lose a good woman. You changed her, then blamed her for the result.
You broke her trust, you bruised her heart, and now you're shocked she's not the same person you fell for.

Newsflash: she's not the one who's changed; your perspective has. You're seeing the effects of your actions and calling it her problem.

She's not toxic; she's wounded.
And instead of owning up to the hurt you caused, you're gaslighting her into thinking she's the flawed one.

Own it. You hurt someone who loved you, and now she's protecting herself from further pain.
That's not toxicity; that's self-preservation.

And if you can't see the damage you've done, that's on you.

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

We are waiting for the response

[Ican Kudivo-Sessy @IcanKudivo]

Chale why do you people hate your wives?

[Kelda @_IamKelda]

@__WavesOfIris__ @ChiamakaNwaJohn Endurance ain’t part of my name. Nor will I leave thanksgiving to turn intercessor. Who wan come claim man can come and claim for he was never mine in the first place 💅🏽 My peace is paramount