These are exactly the kind of experiences that we listen to as aunties and honestly I’m on the fence about having children. The emotional labor seems too much to carry and there’s no guarantee there by men that he’ll be a present father. Delay it until it’s your CHOICE.
I’m not a mom yet, but observing all these conversations makes me feel like most men are allergic to the realities of raising kids. It's wild that even financially stable women struggle to get the right support,Yooh Kubi. 🙌Nna ke sharp ka basemane.🤞
Rent. Petrol hike. Talking stages. Electricity hike. 8 liters a day. Ashwaganda. Supplements. Vitamins. Degree. KPIs. 10 000 steps a day. Exercise. Tax free savings. Retirement annuity. Smell good. Therapy. Heal your inner child. Madlanga commission. March and March. Blended families. Baby mama/daddy drama. Levies. Laundry. Kids. Text back. Lunchboxes. Living on a budget. Car insurance. Being a wife. Mom. Dinner preps. Hobbies. Staying in touch with your loved ones. Weekend = saturday only. Church. One book a month. Applying sunscreen. Probiotics. School fees. Kegel exercises. Praying. Meditating. Balanced diet. Vacations. Tax. Interest rates. View once salary. 8 hours of rest. Saxophone is getting louder. Payflex. Pay just now. Living beyond our means. Networking. Multiple streams of income. Travel. Fasting. Build your investment portfolio. Unemployment. Kind regards.
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To stay grateful at all times,because gratitude programs your brain to focus on the positive, actively shifting your focus away from toxic emotions like resentment and envy.
My worst fear is having a baby daddy oyinja nje 😭 that would genuinely ruin me, yezwa. Imagine being tied to someone stressful for the rest of your life because of a child. Yoh no man, choosing the right person to have kids with is actually so important.
High unemployment affects you even when you are employed. Employee rights & working conditions deteriorate. Workers are easily exploited & ill -treated because the pool of labour is vast and workers can easily be replaced.