People be so mad when you have duality
Like yes I am and can be both
I’m hella mean and hella sweet
I’m hella grown and hella childlike
I’m hella smart and hella silly
I’m hella strict and hella calm
I’m hella prude and hella naughty
I stopped accepting the "I've been busy" "I got a lot going on right now" type excuses from somebody I'm dating because how are you supposed to build something forever if anytime shit gets hard you put me on the shelf? i'm gone.
I think we don't talk enough about how much "being grown" and still being scared of your own mother's opinions/backlash (esp that disguised as consideration) holds you back. It makes you feel like you're not free to disagree/that you're being gaslit simultaneously with no recouse
I sit quietly and realize that God has been taking care of me this whole time. Maybe not in luxurious ways. Maybe not an easy life. But through protection,provision, good health, surviving hard days and always having just enough to keep going.
My love story will not be a story of my man cheating and mistreating me and finally coming to his senses and proposing to me years later😭 Bro I be feeling so sorry hearing those stories from women.