Everything was going well until
I saw Jin Mu and I screamed
I just know there’s going to be a lot of plotting and scheming 😭
Has anybody ever actually watched a K-drama where he was a good guy? Because at this point, you see him appear on screen and you already know evil is about to happen.
This might just be one of those romcom with a thriller twist situations where everything looks sweet until it suddenly isn’t 😭#perfectcrown
This is a deeply sad situation, and it’s important to approach it with empathy for everyone involved.
But it also brings up a difficult reality: pregnancy is something two people create, yet the woman carries the physical and life - threatening risks, with no option to step away. So when men are encouraged to “run” from the pressure, even temporarily, it can feel like leaving her to face that danger alone.
At the same time, pregnancy lasts about nine months, which ideally allows for some level of preparation. Childbirth isn’t an unexpected event, and while financial capacity differs, the expectation is that both parties, especially the man in many contexts, should plan as much as possible for that responsibility. It also raises the question of whether the burden should fall on the woman’s family, who may step in out of urgency, not obligation.
That said, this doesn’t erase the fact that the man may have been overwhelmed, struggling silently under pressure, and possibly lacking support himself.
In the end, this isn’t just about blaming one person, it’s about how lack of planning, unequal burdens, and limited support systems can collide and lead to devastating outcomes.
Maybe it’s just me… but when someone does something for me, I immediately start thinking of what I could do to thank them in return ! I'm so appreciative of consideration & acts of service !