i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
I donโt want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasntโฆ GOOD!
I canโt stand a ngga thatโs tit for tat like your main purpose as aโฆ. man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like btches?
my side of the story doesn't matter anymore. Life happened. It hurt and I healed. Most importantly,I learned who deserves a seat at my table and who will never sit at it again
Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
Iโm telling youโฆif you can safely move back home, do it. Youโre not a failure for that. Youโre being smart. A lot of successful families donโt move their kids out until theyโre married. Take that time to stack your money and invest in the market or a business!
I have this toxic trait of thinking I forgave someone only to sit back one day & all the thoughts of how that person did me dirty comes to hit back & I just never want to hear from them ever again. Especially if whatever they did was too much for me to handle๐ญ๐ญ