If we date, donโt stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Someone once told me, 'Everyone comes into a relationship with baggage. You will either trip over each other's bags or you will unpack them together,' and that hit me. The right person will sit down and help you unpack, no matter how long it takes.
I WANNA BUILD WITH SOMEBODY WHO CARES WHY I BEEN QUIET ALL DAY. Not somebody who get mad and make it about them because Iโm acting different. Real love ask whatโs wrong, checks in, and tries to understand. Some people only know how to reactโฆ not care.
Hot take: Normalise leaving people to avoid empathy burnout like yes I love you but Iโm tired of having to ask you to consider me, or not seeing the principles of where you went wrong.