I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
If you break up with someone and they dont crash out, they don't beg you to come back, they don't go out partying and drinking irresponsibly, but instead start working on themselves, going to the gym, read books and taking care of themselves. I'm sorry to inform you that they truly did love you and you lost a real one. Its your loss
I'm at the point of my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I don't mind walking away when it don't work... family, friends, lovers, anybody!
If I cut you off, your success later won’t make me regret it. Good for you, truly. But becoming rich, popular, married, fit, or “blessed” does not rewrite how you treated people when your character was on trial. I can respect your growth from a distance and still remember why access was revoked. Success can change your status, but it doesn’t automatically clean your history.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
YOU START LOOKING AT PEOPLE DIFFERENT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HOW THEY REALLY BEEN TREATING YOU. especially when you realize how much you overlooked just to keep peace, avoid arguments, or keep somebody in your life. But that shyt dead do them how they do you 🫵🏾& Never let tf up
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
I love being a ray of sunshine. I don’t want to be in anybody’s life making it harder. If I ever am, cut me off. I’d rather be remembered for bringing peace, kindness, and good energy than for adding weight to someone’s shoulders.