80% of women escape poverty through marriage. 80% of Men also enter poverty through marriage. The same institution can be a ladder or a trap. Let that sink in.
A reminder from Atomic Habits by James Clear:
“New goals don't deliver new results. New lifestyles do. And a lifestyle is a process, not an outcome. For this reason, all of your energy should go into building better habits, not chasing better results.”
As a man, normalise a boring life. Go to bed early. Read long books. Drink tea. Regulate your nervous system. Spend time alone. Go for walks without headphones. Eat simple food. Shrink your circle. Turn down the noise.
One of my mentors posted this today on his WhatsApp and I couldn't scroll past it. I'm sharing it with everyone who wants more out of life and refuses to settle for average.