I used to respond with reactions and pettiness. Now, I respond with boundaries. I don’t blink twice before removing anyone who plays with my time or energy.
As my friend, don’t have my name in rotation. Don’t discuss my life with your other friends, your family, your group chats..NONE of that. That’s the quickest way for me to fall back. My business is not a topic for nobody else but ME.
i don't think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!!!!!
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
don’t ever question me about being real or loyalty i done looked out for mfs when i didn’t have to even when mfs ain’t did shit for me not counting favors but i be in mfs corners & they don’t even be in mine support , defend or anything the energy never the same glad i stopped
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something.