I can’t believe it took me 3 experiences to get a hang of this, but please stop entertaining (romantically) anyone whose first contact with you was as a fan.
I don’t even know what more to say about this.
There is a lot of luck invovled with finding a spouse, particularly one worthy of having children with, so I side-eye pretty much all comments looking down on those who haven't settled down. It's arrogant and shows a lack of self-awareness.
Was at the unveiling of a new report on sexual assault referral centers in Nigeria, and I hadn’t previously thought of the link between SARCs and police brutality. There’s cases of women locked up for turning a man down. Legal aid orgs working with SARCs work those cases too.