I texted him, "How was your day today?" and
he sent me a 6-minute voice note telling me everything.
And that basically sums up the kind of person I want by my side.
Stop normalizing disinterest.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.